No, it's not any term I got from anywhere else - it's more a concept of how I try to parent (try being the operative word - it is a daily pursuit in personal growth).The thing about Zen is that it's all about process. To focus on the outcome is to become attached and try to manip...
Sorry, I was replying to the eating thread. :shy...
:( We were at a playground, and there was a nanny there with a 3 year old and a 14 month old. They were playing well with my 3 1/2 year old and my own 14 month old, until the local daycare kids came in. The 14 month old had previously been in this daycare (and the nanny had previously worked i...
Gosh, I don't know where to start. Just when I thought I had this parenting thing figured out my fifth child turned 2. Ever since then it's been a whirlwind. He's nearly 3 now and is just so hard to deal with. First of all, he calls me (and the other kids) stupid all of the ti...
(This is kinda a spinoff from my other post.)Where do you draw the line? How do you resolve conflicts of wants?Do you basically "rule the roost" and what you say goes?Or do you try very hard to let dc do/get everything he/she wants?I'd bet most of us are in the middle somewhere- but how do...
I am currently trying something new with my dd. I am having a hard time with her especially with her and her NB twin brothers. SHe is always waking them up and messing with them. She will wake them up on purpose just to get me annoyed. I am starting to ask her not to do it and if she continues I...
Has anyone heard of this. I am looking into some classes that are based on this. Any opinions on this?...
I have some mental sayings, thoughts, whatever that I run through my head like a broken record to keep me GD with Ds. Sometimes I'm GD on the outside and SEETHING on the inside LOL.1. He's a baby, you're the adult.2. Whatever he's doing, is developmentally appropriate for hi...
Not really sure how to word this - or avoid making it rediculously long :lol...but I would just like your advice/input/etc on a 'situation' regarding my 26 month old son ...and shopping ... :lolWell - hes fine shopping...he loves shopping...but he doesnt like leaving or 'staying...
I'm way into "How to talk so kids will listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk."What's your favorite g.d book? I'm thinking about hitting the library....
I checked out the sticky about GD books and am considering asking for a few for xmas....please let me know your favorite...I read all the descriptions but it is hard to pick just a few.Thanks,Sarah...
I get that comment a lot. My 18 mo dd says yes all the time. But she never says no. It's not in her small vocabulary at all. And people tell me that it is amazing that she never says no.So, I guess my question is this, is this common in families that use GD and rarely (and rarely have t...
I am wondering if my comfort level, often determined by my anxieties, unjustly limits problem solving with dd. Sometimes there are solutions--often solutions I read here on the GD board--that I would be uncomfortable with because it would be beyond my comfort level. I guess I am wondering if p...
I have a 10 yo dsd who is extremely orally fixated, has pretty lousy table manners, and loves to teach her little sis (my 2 yo dd) "tricks" like inhaling food off her plate, making faces with mouth full of food, pretend crying, etc. and encourages games that leave little sis in an uncomfortable...
so my dd (20mo) is going through some hard times this week. and consequently, so am i! here are the issues that have come up and what i've been doing about them:hitting me: she does this mostly at bedtime when i'm trying to help her get to sleep. sleep has always been an issue for...
